'Breast Cancer + Vagus Nerve Dysfunction' Seo Jeong-hee Realizes at 63: "I Want to Be a 'Virtuous Woman,' Not Just a 'Pretty Woman'"

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Broadcaster Seo Jeong-hee has vowed to become a "wise woman."

On the 8th, Seo Jeong-hee posted a lengthy message on her account: "What kind of woman will I become? When I look in the mirror these days, things that differ from before appear first. Slightly altered facial lines, a body silhouette unlike my younger self. Time is truly honest. In the past, it was important to wear pretty clothes, carry nice bags, and appear slightly younger and more sophisticated. But at some point, I became more curious about what kind of woman I am growing old into before God's word than how I look in the mirror."

She continued, "In Proverbs 11, we encounter a 'virtuous woman.' 'A virtuous woman gains honor.' The word 'honor' stays with me for a long time. It is not about drawing people's attention but being valued by others because of how one has lived her life. In Proverbs 12, we meet a 'capable woman.' 'A capable woman is the crown of her husband.' A capable woman is not someone who shines only herself but makes those living with her shine even brighter."

She added, "And at the end of Proverbs, we meet a 'virtuous and capable woman.' 'Who can find a virtuous and capable woman? Her value is far above rubies.' This woman does not sit idly waiting to be called a 'good woman.' She works diligently, cares for her household, prepares what is needed, extends a hand to the poor, and takes responsibility for her own life. And at the center of all this life lies a heart that fears the Lord."

Seo Jeong-hee stated, "The virtuous and capable woman in Proverbs 31 is described not merely as obedient or gentle but as a woman who builds her household and community using her strength and wisdom. Looking at these three women, my desired way of life becomes slightly clearer: A virtuous woman—a woman with the right direction in life. A capable woman—a woman who treats people with value. A virtuous and capable woman—a woman who lives out the life given to her with wisdom and strength. And at the deepest core of these three images lies a wise woman."

She said, "A wise woman does not stop at knowing what is right. She puts what she knows into words and actions today. That is why I now feel that being called just a 'pretty woman' is somewhat insufficient. I want to grow old gracefully. But more important than that is growing old deeply. Time may leave traces on my face, but I hope wisdom remains in my words; my body's silhouette may change, but I wish the way I treat people will show even better character. I still want to wear nice clothes and love beautiful things. But now, just as I care for my appearance, I also want to nurture the person within me."

She further shared, "A woman who does not judge easily, does not hurt others easily, does not return wounds received, and knows how to give what she has to those in need rather than clutching tightly to her possessions. A woman who does not live for recognition from people but lives a life that brings no shame before God. Perhaps growing older is not about giving up beauty but changing the standard of beauty. From the beauty of youth to the beauty of life. From the beauty of appearance to the beauty of character. And finally, to wisdom that values God's heart more than human applause. What kind of woman will I become? A virtuous woman, a capable woman, a virtuous and capable woman, and a wise woman. A woman who becomes more precious as time passes. A woman who lets go outwardly bit by bit but grows deeper inwardly. I want to be such a woman."

Meanwhile, Seo Jeong-hee married the late broadcaster Seo Se-won in 1982 and had one son and one daughter. Her eldest daughter, Seo Dong-ju, is active as an American lawyer, broadcaster, and author.

Seo Jeong-hee's marriage ended after 32 years when allegations of domestic violence by the late Seo Se-won surfaced in 2014. Currently, Seo Jeong-hee is in a public relationship with architect Kim Taehyun, who is six years her junior. Seo Jeong-hee was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in 2022 and underwent treatment.

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