42-year-old woman on 'Mureobosar' (Ask the Wise) pleads for help after suffering from ex-husband's jealousy and violence: "I haven't seen my children in 7 years"

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A woman who divorced her husband due to his obsessive jealousy and violence claimed that she has been unable to meet her two children for seven years.

On the 2nd, a 42-year-old woman appeared as a guest on the KBS Joy variety show 'Mueotdeun Mureobosar' (Ask Anything to the Wise), stating that she has not been able to see her children since their divorce.

The guest said, "I divorced due to my ex-husband's violence, obsessive jealousy, and financial issues." She continued, "At the time, I was in no position to raise the children, so I had no choice but to transfer custody and guardianship rights. However, even after seven years have passed, I still cannot see them."

Regarding the reasons for the divorce, the guest stated, "My ex-husband's obsessive jealousy was extremely severe. I did not do anything that would give him reason to suspect me." She added, "Since I worked in the beauty industry, I had to be kind to customers whether they were men or women. But my husband would come and go to the salon, watch how I spoke to customers, and then beat me when we got home." She also mentioned, "Checking my mobile phone was standard, and he also threw objects at me."

She even said she faced dangerous situations during her final month of pregnancy. The guest recounted, "When the owner of the salon said, 'You two worked so well together,' my ex-husband suspected what had happened between us." She added, "In my last month of pregnancy, he opened the car door while we were driving and told me to die. My younger sister was also sitting in the back seat at the time."

The guest recalled that incidents like these had occurred even before their marriage, but she proceeded with the wedding because of the children. She revealed that although she had agreed to visitation rights twice a month at the time of the divorce, she actually has not been able to meet her children.

She stated, "When I ask to see the children, all my ex-husband returns is cursing and threats." She added, "My in-laws are raising the children, so I have gone to their home, but I still could not see them."

In response, Seo Jang-hoon asked, "Legally, you have visitation rights. Shouldn't you at least report it if they refuse to show you the children?" The guest replied, "At that time, I was too young and didn't know better. My ex-husband himself was terrifying."

Currently, her son is 16 years old and her daughter is 15. Seo Jang-hoon pointed out, "From the children's perspective, their mother suddenly disappeared when they were 8 or 9 years old." He added, "They might have developed resentment thinking that their mother did not try to find them."

However, the guest revealed that she recently received contact from her older child. She shared, "The child said, 'I have my own situation too, so could you please wait a little longer? When I turn 20, I will definitely come looking for you. But because of the current circumstances, there is no way to do it.'"

The guest also revealed that she had gone as far as visiting her children's school in an attempt to meet them. At the time, she was unable to meet her son, so she asked his former friend to pass along her contact information. She claimed that when this fact became known to her in-laws' household, the children were scolded.

The guest stated that after this incident, her son sent her a message saying, "Mom, could you give me some pocket money?" She said, "I asked him to send his account number. That is all I can do," expressing her sorrow.

Hearing this, Lee Soo-geun comforted her by saying, "It seems the children have their own circumstances too. It appears they get scolded or punished when they communicate with their mother." He added, "Eventually, they will understand their mother's feelings." Seo Jang-hoon said, "I know it was scary for a long time and you were busy just trying to survive on your own. I also know that despite your efforts, things didn't go well and time passed." However, he advised, "The important thing is that no matter what anyone says, you are their mother. You need to live even harder than before and make up for what you couldn't give them, starting now."

Finally, the guest left a video message for her children, saying, "Kids, Mom is doing well. I hope you grow up healthy and that we can meet when you turn 20." She added, "Because of you, Mom has a goal in life. Please don't lose heart and take care of yourselves."

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