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A storyteller struggling with appearance complexes due to rapid weight loss after surgery revealed shocking remarks she had heard from her ex-boyfriend.
On the episode of KBS Joy's 'Ask the Wise' broadcast on the 19th, a storyteller who wanted to regain confidence in her appearance appeared.

That day, the storyteller stated, "Ten years ago, I underwent major surgery because my stomach was not well. As a side effect of the surgery, I lost 40 kg in six months, leaving many marks on my body."
She continued, "Due to the rapid weight loss, sagging skin still remains, which has significantly lowered my self-esteem," and shared her concerns about her appearance.
In particular, the storyteller confessed that she had been hurt in romantic relationships due to her appearance complexes. She said, "Even though I explained in advance that I had undergone surgery, when we got into physical contact, the other person would be taken aback or say it was creepy."
She then added, "My long-term boyfriend compared me to other women and said, 'You look like you have a grandma's body. Other girls exercise and get personal training, so why are you still the same?'" conveying her ex-boyfriend's derogatory comments about her appearance.

Hearing this, Seo Jang-hoon emphasized the necessity of exercise to the storyteller. He then said, "If you don't want it to be visible, you must try hard to exercise and put things back in place. How can anything change if you just sit there and lament?" and added, "Whether you will live with your complexes without exercising or live happily without complexes by building a firm body through exercise is your choice."
However, the storyteller said, "I don't think I will get good results even if I exercise," showing a lack of confidence.
In response, Seo Jang-hoon pointed out, "That is just your thought. How can you know without trying? You think that way because you don't want to do it and find it difficult."
He also said, "I will speak as a former athlete. Do you think it was easy for athletes from the start? Even athletes find running difficult. If you endure and persevere, you develop the stamina to run," urging consistent effort.
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